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Guest		#108 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 4:14:57 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Pixieraver wrote: Hi guys, I am new on the forum and my wife is expecting a baby next month. I am excited about this and really looking forward to it but our sex life seems to be non existent since she clocked 6months and this is really putting a strain on us, she complains about the sex being painful, she not in the mood etc i remember people saying pregnant women love sex but the reverse is my case, now silly thoughts keep coming into my head about finding sex elsewhere, please guys advice me on what you think i can do.
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Guest		#109 Posted : Tuesday, March 09, 2010 5:15:44 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		I am 25 years old Married for 4 Years and Doing very well if you must know iam black. I get on the forum to get advice from other married man who have been hopefully doing great and i get such hawfull advices you guys suggesting hookers and cheating will end up in Aids. Very dissapointed at the many that suggested such. I will rather wait even if it was 1 year couse, We were virgins when we got married. So please keep your ugly advices. Thanks
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Guest		#110 Posted : Thursday, March 11, 2010 12:07:15 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Guest @ 3:15:44 PM - you're probably closer to the truth than most... Looks like most of the so-called 'dads' commenting here and suggesting/condoning prostitutes, etc. are actually pathetic little boys pretending to be men. As for the women criticising Pixie, without even bothering to read his original post properly, stick to reading your glossy but dull and depressive women's magazines with their '30 tips on how to revitalise your relationship' and 'would you marry him again?' cr@p! Go back to your self-help books on 'Validate your self-worth' - or learn to READ and UNDERSTAND a question properly before criticising what you THINK you understand, which actually bears no resemblence to reality... No wonder women (in general) spend so much time gossiping - they actually don't have a clue about reality, so they have to find some way to keep themselves occupied! To those gents and ladies who offered genuine, caring advice - well done! THAT is what this forum exists for. @Pixie - vasbyt, min dae... Just hang in there, brother - things will improve. Eventually... p.s. @ parent24ed - "Ginger" is short for "Ginger-Beer", cockney rhyming slang for "queer"............ you know what THAT means, don't you?
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Guest		#111 Posted : Thursday, March 11, 2010 3:21:32 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Hey dad to be!!! I'm a married mom and are looking forward to becauming pregnant soon again. I can give you this advise though, following up with hooker is the most sickening advise I've heard. Your wife needs to feel pretty and loved now, and I do now you need to feel that love too. Once baby is there you will once again learn to make time for each other, for now try to do other intimate things that will bring you guys close to each other. Bath together, massage her(all over if you know what I mean), read to her, touch her, rub her back...and just hold out, it is true that some moms enjoy sex while pregnant, but it is also true that at the last few days it is uncomfortable, so just hold out. She needs you emotionally now, and you need her physically so guide her to help you out, oral sex can be just as good and fun. Try it out!!!
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SilverMecer		#112 Posted : Friday, March 12, 2010 10:58:54 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Newbie Groups: Joined: 5/29/2009(UTC) Posts: 1 Points: 3		@Pixieraver - Go ahead have sex, tell your wife the baby is well protected and will not get hurt. My son was born almost 3 years ago and we had sex until the last month. The drawback back is to keep it easy and you must be at the bottom, 2 ton on you .
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Guest		#113 Posted : Sunday, March 21, 2010 11:28:56 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		okokok ARE You PEAPLE FRICKIN RETARDED????? And reall you think ur pregnant wife carrying YOUR baby deserves for you to go and cheay on her???!!!? I'm sorry but how the hel! Can you even justify that thought even.. heres an idea for you..instead of being unfaithful masturbate and don't give me the lame ass excuse that it's tireing..if you need release do it....stop giving urself reason to justify cheating on ur wife you should be ashamed you bastards...
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Guest		#114 Posted : Thursday, April 01, 2010 10:57:57 AM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Pixie, i think you should just go forth and have sex with other woman. These other guys preaching to you need to wake up. Times are changing.
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Guest		#115 Posted : Thursday, April 01, 2010 3:22:17 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Guest wrote: Pixie, i think you should just go forth and have sex with other woman. These other guys preaching to you need to wake up. Times are changing. Obviously either an April Fool's joke, or a retarded Guest speaking...
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Guest		#116 Posted : Friday, April 16, 2010 6:05:04 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		A man has needs and a man has brains and if i heard u correctly ur woman is at six months that means she will be bringing another addition to ur family in three months time which will complete u as a man. so hang in there we have all been there and remember sex is important but its not everything
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Guest		#117 Posted : Sunday, April 18, 2010 4:26:21 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		stop and think boet! getting sex from somewhere else should not even be considered!! WTF!!! and watching porn, please, please, please!!!to think that those other people are adults???!! good grief... my wife is over sexed, but is so paranoid, that it is just not happening so I know where you are coming from. having an affair is aginst all YOU promised her when you married her, (I know they are not sick, just pregnant)LOL but you did make that promise, and one day it will come out, just think how do you think your wife, and your child will then feel?? to all the retards who suggest prozzies, its is because of twits like you that this country is importing 'them' (40 000) for the soccer world cup, and making it legal... you deserve STD's your partners not!!!!!
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Guest		#118 Posted : Friday, May 07, 2010 12:56:01 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Pixie Raver: You should've had your baby by now... did you wait? did you hire a hooker, or slap your salami? give us some feedback...
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Guest		#119 Posted : Thursday, May 13, 2010 5:04:27 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		ooo; Pixie is very quiet. probabaly ashamed that he bonked a hookie or he has moved onto the newborn forum!
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Pixie Raver		#120 Posted : Friday, May 28, 2010 4:36:05 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		For all the advice out there thanks.... I'm glad with the choice I made and don't regret it... at first I spoke to my wife but she was not willing to help, tried out some porn but could not get it up.... Finally saved up for two months and got a real high class lady.... was awesome.... I was relieved and my wife was happy that I wasn't pestering her anymore... win win... have a wonderful baby and me and the wife are back to our normal couch rugby... Cheers ALL
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Well hello there		#124 Posted : Monday, May 31, 2010 6:16:06 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Pixie, dude you've got more nuts than I have. I was in exactly the same situation as you (baby born, mom always tired, me always horny from watching too much yuvutu, etc) and I was also thinking about hiring a lady. I don't know why but I never did. Anyway, that was about 8 months ago and I have to report that our couch rugby is also back to where it was. I also had The Talk with her and told her in no uncertain terms that the lack of action was driving me mad and taking a ruk wasn't doing it anymore. I didn't threaten any action or anything but I made sure she understood. I know this isn't called cheaters24 but the quickest way the wife will spot something is if you do something out of character. You've been pestering her for months and all of a sudden, you don't. See what I'm saying ? She's gonna ask herself why and because they already don't feel attractive and desirable after baby is born, she's going to suspect someone else immediately. I'm of course assuming that she didn't give you permission because if she did, I'd nominate her for wife of the year. Are you sorted out now son ? You had a question at the start of this discussion and we'd like to know if your question has been answered. We'd also like pictures. Can I have an AMEN ?!!!
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WAYDA		#125 Posted : Tuesday, August 03, 2010 5:50:17 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		WELL SOME WOMAN ARE JUST NOT IN THE MOOD.WHEN I WAS PREGGIES....I WANTED IT ALL THE TIME....AND I HAD IT ALL THE TIME...I HAD A BLADDER INFECTION ONE MONTH,VERY PAINFUL BUT THE DOC AND SITRO SODA AND ALOT OF POTTY WIPES SORTED ME OUT.I TRIED TO ASSIST MY MAN AS WELL.FOR ME IT WAS ADVENTUROUS AND KEPT MY BIRTH CANAL WIDE OPEN AND MADE BIRTH EASY.SOME WOMAN JUST BITCH AND MOAN...I PREFER TO GROAN
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Heads UP!!!! PARENT24ED!!!!!!		#121 Posted : Wednesday, August 04, 2010 1:01:55 AM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Guest wrote: For all the advice out there thanks.... I'm glad with the choice I made and don't regret it... at first I spoke to my wife but she was not willing to help, tried out some porn but could not get it up.... Finally saved up for two months and got a real high class lady.... was awesome.... I was relieved and my wife was happy that I wasn't pestering her anymore... win win... have a wonderful baby and me and the wife are back to our normal couch rugby... Cheers ALL WHOA, people - this is BULLSH1T! This isn't Pixieraver - check out the fact that "Pixieraver" (the OP) is one word, this post is by a Guest, who changed their 'Guest' handle to "Pixie Raver". If you quote their post, the poster is listed as 'Guest'. See above. 'nuff said - this is nothing but a troll posting under somebody else's name. Childish and immature. Wonder what rock this guest crawled out from under...
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Guest		#126 Posted : Wednesday, August 04, 2010 5:28:02 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		I don't normally post but felt I had to on this one. If you are thinking about cheating then do the right thing before you do and divorce her. This way you can go and sleep with as many women as you like with a guilt free conscience. The problem is that men like to have the wife at home that will continue to care for them when they are ill, cook their food, keep the house clean, wash and iron clothes etc. BUT they want to have the mistress on the side so they selfishly decide to keep both. Your wife does not own you and therefore if you want to have sex with other women by all means do so but NOT while you are married. You make a commitment to love, honour and cherish her in good times and bad and forsaking all others. What right do you have to destroy her life?If you sleep with someone else and end up giving her AIDS, is that fair? She did not ask you to sleep with other women while married to her. Before all the men get on their high horse and start saying well this wouldn't have happened if she had been giving sex, I refer to my original point - if you are dissatisfied then LEAVE.If you choose to sleep with other women then at least let the potential STD's/AIDS etc be your problem and don't sentence an innocent women because of your lust and selfishness.
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Guest		#127 Posted : Wednesday, August 04, 2010 5:48:42 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Further to my previous post, sex is not everything. A woman is pregnant for a short period and then you can resume your sex life. What annoys me is all the men saying to cheat would be the first ones to divorce their wives if the tables were turned and they found out that their wives had cheated on them. Why do men have this impression that they can do as they please but if the women had to do it to them then all hell would break loose. Its about having respect for each other and realising that marriage has ups and downs. Its about standing together when it hits the down points. Let me pose this question. If you for a medical reason or other could not have sex for a period of time (say 9 months) would you be quite happy if your wife had sex with someone else to "relieve" herself and then resumed having sex with you once you were able to again?As I pointed out in my previous post, your marriage vows say forsaking all others.We all have choices in life and if you feel that a monogamous relationship isn't for you then don't get married. Its that simple
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Guest		#128 Posted : Friday, August 27, 2010 10:04:41 AM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Hi there, Ask your partner if she will be comfortable with your idea of getting the sex elsewhere. If not, then she must come up with an alternative as the break on sex is no option. Yes, you have needs as a man, she must also bear that in mind. How did the pregnancy come about in the first place? Communication to your frustrastions is the best. Believe me, I am pregnant too but ooh goodness, my man is the one who suggested we stop having sex but I said, hell no! There are many options you can consider for both of you.
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Guest		#122 Posted : Tuesday, September 07, 2010 3:36:55 PM(UTC) Quote
Rank: Guest Groups: Joined: 8/1/2008(UTC) Posts: 10,586 Points: -10,831		Guest wrote: Guest wrote: For all the advice out there thanks.... I'm glad with the choice I made and don't regret it... at first I spoke to my wife but she was not willing to help, tried out some porn but could not get it up.... Finally saved up for two months and got a real high class lady.... was awesome.... I was relieved and my wife was happy that I wasn't pestering her anymore... win win... have a wonderful baby and me and the wife are back to our normal couch rugby... Cheers ALL WHOA, people - this is BULLSH1T! This isn't Pixieraver - check out the fact that "Pixieraver" (the OP) is one word, this post is by a Guest, who changed their 'Guest' handle to "Pixie Raver". If you quote their post, the poster is listed as 'Guest'. See above. 'nuff said - this is nothing but a troll posting under somebody else's name. Childish and immature. Wonder what rock this guest crawled out from under... Moron, if you are going to write something, let it be of value
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