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At what age do you give a child a cell phone?
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#42 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 9:41:34 AM(UTC)
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Children without access to technology are falling way behind their peers


I'm sorry - I beg to differ on this specific point.

What kind of technology are you talking about? The technology that would make a positive difference to these children must be germane to their studies and their intended course of tertiary studies or even career. I fail to see where technology, for technology's sake, improves the academic performance of any child. In particular, the latest/greatest cellphone doesn't enhance any child's academic life, but only exposes them more blatantly and recklessly to the dangers of crime, be it theft, exposure to unscrupulous individuals utilising social networks to prey upon the young and innocent, or even 'just' their peers using these same networks to manipulate them.

Relevance (of the technology) is the watchword and the key in this case.

Cellular communications, particularly with regards to the user-interface, are hardly the stuff of science-fiction, nor cutting-edge in nature. And when a cellular phone is used to access unsuitable material on the internet or anywhere else, to chat with friends when these children should all be sleeping, or to disseminate pictures/videos that common decency dictates should be deleted or at least kept private, then technology becomes hugely negative in its effect on the children using it, and should be removed.

Please also remember that it doesn't take years of exposure to a technology for even an averagely intelligent (South Africa's average I.Q. sits at around 91, apparently) individual to master that technology. In my technologically complex field (computing applications in the financial sector, utilising all manner of input/interface devices) I have mentored and helped train people of ALL ages who were technological neophytes, and have been pleasantly surprised to find that, with the right approach and a supportive attitude, almost NOBODY has a problem mastering even highly complex technology used for practical applications in the workplace.

And surely the workplace, where the child will (eventually, hopefully) earn their bread-and-butter, where the years of schooling and the relevant technology they are able to demonstrate practical mastery of, is where this eventually and finally counts? To this end, and in light of my experience with training individuals who were considered 'untrainable', but who have surprised their detractors no end, I would say that the technology children need to master is already contained within their school syllabus (yup, even that of the otherwise useless O.B.E. fiasco), and that Mxit, Twitter, et al are in fact harming their future employment opportunities by teaching them to communicate in a strangely-spelt phonetic version of the English language, known in the industry as "Ebonix". I, and several of my colleagues, have purposely NOT hired people specifically as a result of their 'insistence' on spelling in 'sms-type' language.

Teach your children to type properly (not 'hunt & peck'), and teach them to spell properly. That is FAR more important than giving them cellphones and unfettered internet access...
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#43 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 8:06:19 PM(UTC)
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#44 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 12:59:41 PM(UTC)
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u r stuipid


BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

I don't think you could have demonstrated the previous poster's point any better had you tried to!

Thank you!

This has made my day!
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#45 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 6:25:07 PM(UTC)
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My daughter had her 1st cell phone when she was 5yrs old her dad worked for mtn and i for vodacom so it was a case of why not, plus she knew her alphabets and numbers by then. She used the same phone until she was 10 yrs old.

i got her a new phone without camera, loaded it with 20 sms bundle and R50 airtime, I pay R40 rand monthly, she only communicates with family and classmates. she is turning 11 end of this month she has asked for a camera phone she thinks she deserves it as she's been responsible with the phone and her grades are tops! The only reason she wants a camera phone is because she wants to do video calling she thinks its soooo coool to talk to a person while looking at them simultaneously, she keeps her phone at home she is not allowed to visit with it or take it to school , she gets excited all the time when she switches it on Sunday afternoon if she has been away o the weekend all the beep! beep! message alerts...she wud say"what wud the world be without mwa?" refering to her classmates.

i monitor the phone once a week just to make sure all is well and its always is, I do not see anything wrong with it as long the child know why they have the cellphone. And if the parent is ok with it.

Because my phone is video call enabled i think it wud be cool too to give her a buzz everyday after school before i get home...just to see that cute face!
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#3 Posted : Monday, August 30, 2010 11:31:34 AM(UTC)
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I also thought age 13 would be appropriate for my step-daughter to have her first cellphone. But my husband decided to give her one about three months ago (she is now 7yrs) – to my dismay! She is now constantly on it: listening to music, phoning everyone she knows, and listening to more music! She cannot even read properly yet – being in Gr1. If I tell her to put the phone down and go play with her toys – she says no, it is to “boring”. My advice? Wait until your child is 13 – it is the best thing you can do for his emotional and creative growth.




7yr!!!!!??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????? WHAT WENT WRONG!!!????? 13 MIN
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#46 Posted : Thursday, September 02, 2010 10:54:57 AM(UTC)
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A cell phone could be a useful tool to secure your child's safety.

Look at www.sacrimewatch.co.za - they run a platform that's dedicated to teens where they can report situations anonymously.

I joined and as a member I receive area related reports of my choice.

So I think, lighten up, they use their friends cellphones at school anyway and it could be a positive thing - it keeps me informed and statistics show that up to 41% of youngsters have been aware or have experienced crime.
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