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WAN TO ADOPT A WHITE BABY GIRL
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#26 Posted : Tuesday, August 31, 2010 10:50:23 AM(UTC)
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Sjoe thank you to all the replies to my original post.
I must say that I have received encouraging and then not so flattering comments.

The main reason for the post was to sensitise those wanting to give their children up for adoption about the hurt and confusion that is caused if you cannot make up your mind.
While I do understand that it is an extremely difficult decision to make, I have to in the same breath say that you must be very brave and must love your child dearly to take such a step.

My intention was not to envoke nasty comments or to criticise anybody on their choices.

I have taken the necessary steps with Child Welfare in Cape Town and must say that they are brilliant. You cannot do this on your own and there are many steps to follow before you as an adoptive parent take the step to adopt.

Good luck to those wanting to adopt. Good luck to those who are preparing to give their precious gifts for adoption - you are extremely unselfish and my Prayer is that God will grant you the wisdom to choose wisely for your child(ren).

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#29 Posted : Monday, October 04, 2010 11:13:17 AM(UTC)
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Hello ladies. You all need to watch what you say. I would love to adopt so i know how the ladies feel who are in the same position. However my sister had to give up her baby years ago for his own safety and you have no idea how hard it is for them. Yes they do get confused remember the hormones during pregnancy and then to suddenly have this little Angel in your life. I don't care what you've been through in previous or current adoption. Think of those ladies who are so sad and confused about what to do. Have a heart. Good luck to all of you. May God bless you and guide you all through your journey.
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#31 Posted : Tuesday, October 19, 2010 1:49:43 PM(UTC)
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I would also love to adopt a white baby- we do not have any children of our own and long to be parents, boy or girls, twins or triplets does not really matter.

We Love God I am a counsellor and Play therapist and would love to stay at home with my little ones.

If you feel that you would love to release your little one or ones I would love to be part of your journey if it feels right for you!Drool
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#4 Posted : Friday, December 17, 2010 1:20:33 PM(UTC)
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Why only a 'white little girl'?? There is lots of other 'little girls' without a home out there also looking for love and a place to grow up.

Christian Family do not mind colour!!



EVERY PERSON HAS THR RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHAT THEY PERSONALLY WANT - It has nothing to do with race or gender.
I f I want a white child, it is my own choice & has ntohing to do with what YYOU think I shoukd get.
No offence, but you need to step out of this "=old way of thinking= & start to accept the way things are.
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#34 Posted : Friday, December 17, 2010 2:24:37 PM(UTC)
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If you are looking for a white baby gilr you are going to wait a life time cause just as you are looking thousands more are also ooking, fact is they are a rarity in the system. You might find a todler or older girls but not a baby.

On the other hand if you looking for a black baby your chances are much better.

Hope you find what you are looking for!
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#37 Posted : Saturday, December 25, 2010 7:12:17 PM(UTC)
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If you are pregnant, can't have the baby for what ever reason, but forced into abortion by family, friends or even the father of the child.... we are a Christian ministry who offer help to such woman. We are a pro-life organization seeking to save babies from cruel abortion. We offer to assist you throughout your pregnancy and help with alternative options such as adobtion. We are connected to a few adoption service providers who are trustworthy and experienced. Please don't let any person force you into killing your baby. No situation is helpless. contact us at abort97help@yahoo.com
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#38 Posted : Wednesday, December 29, 2010 1:42:41 PM(UTC)
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My husband and i had a still born baby girl last year, i then had a miss carriage of triplets 5 months later and because of the damage done internally the Doctors say that haing my own does not look promising.
In South Africa it is illegal to adopt a white child.
All my husband and i want is alittle girl to be apart of our family, to love and nurture and give ourselves to.
Any ideas on how we even begin?
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#40 Posted : Thursday, December 30, 2010 7:34:21 AM(UTC)
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In South Africa it is illegal to adopt a white child.


Where you can start, is to educate yourself on the matter instead of making such ignorant and misleading statements.
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#39 Posted : Thursday, December 30, 2010 9:09:50 AM(UTC)
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[quote=Guest] In South Africa it is illegal to adopt a white child.


Now where on earth would you have gotten this rubbish idea from?
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#42 Posted : Monday, January 03, 2011 11:18:59 AM(UTC)
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For South Africans, it is not illegal to adopt a white baby, just near impossible!
There are not many white babies available for adoption. With the decline in morals, it is not considered a transgression to be an unwed mother, thus, most of the pregnant teens and women keep their babies unless they feel they are not ready to be a mother or are too financially deprived to care for the child.

Regarding adopting a child or baby of your own race…
It is so easy to try and make people feel guilty for wanting a child of their own race… Many black people want to adopt black children just like some white people want to adopt white children. Why not make those who just keep on getting pregnant feel guilty??? Wake up!!! Condoms are not a new invention; they have been around for years and so have Sterilization, so don’t enable careless selfish people by blaming their ignorance! The sad thing is that the children are suffering. I hope that one day; the South African government will introduce and enforce a law that makes people pay fines for having children that they cannot care for or even sterilize those who just keep on having babies they cannot care for. I am grieving for the lives of the babies and children that my black brothers and sisters are throwing away like trash! You should be ashamed; our ancestors are looking at you with hateful eyes!
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#43 Posted : Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:44:47 PM(UTC)
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i will adopt a child as i cannot have any of my own, how do i go about doing so? my email ad is zurie6@hotmail.comDrool
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#44 Posted : Tuesday, February 08, 2011 3:53:38 PM(UTC)
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Anxious Hi im a white lady aged 27, i would love to adopt a little baby race does not matter to me. To god there is no black and white
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#45 Posted : Tuesday, March 01, 2011 12:04:11 PM(UTC)
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My goodness... What happened to freedom of speech and a person's rights in this day and age? If someone wants to adopt a white baby let them be - gracious me... We don't know the person's situation, way of life, religion or family situation. I know for a fact that if I wanted to adopt I'd ask for exactly the same thing. I wouldn't want a poor child to grow up with an identity crisis because he/she looks different from his/her family or being teased at school and kids asking questions, and family and extended family rejecting the poor child because of certain issues - and believe me it happens I have a family like that and it doesnt mean I'm like them, I'm just trying to do the right thing for the kid.

Please take the poor child's wellbeing into consideration too...there are A LOT of factors contributing to preference, so dont judge and always bring up the racial thing. It's so 90's and its really getting extremely boring listening to the same old grammophone playing over and over again. Move on, its 2011 not 1994!!!!!

If I want a white baby I'm allowed to say so, If i want a red car I'm also allowed to do so, and if I like black handbags instead of white ones why must i apologise for that? Must I now be sorry for wanting a black handbag and be forced to take a white one just because of some idiotic people that still has a race problem and cant get over it?? Its been over 17 YEARS people....ITS TIME TO MOVE ON!
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#30 Posted : Tuesday, April 05, 2011 5:06:04 PM(UTC)
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Has anybody been contacted by the support group at moyaombi@yahoo.co.uk. I would also like to adopt and get no reaction from this support group. Is there not a telephone number somebody can help me with. Hope to hear from you soon
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