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alaric
#43 Posted : Thursday, September 23, 2010 4:00:35 PM(UTC)
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Why do you not want a child ? Perhaps your circumstances are not ideal ? Is there anything you could do to change them ? Because you yourself say that you would get attached - which to me sounds as if you are not as ANTI baby as you say. I am a big beleiver in fate never giving you more than you can handle.

Yes, kids are hard work, you get little sleep, little thanks or appreciation. But my children are the best thing in my life. I lie and watch them sleep at night, and think 'I did this' they are so perfect, so innocent. I had a miscarriage as a teenager (which at the time was a blessing) and it still bothers me no end. Once my husband & I decided to start a family and we lost our first baby at 28 weeks, before we even met her. That still bothers me too...

If you really can't make a baby work in your life, then consider adoption - perhaps there is a community member in your area who wants a child, that you know will be good parent ? I think you can choose who to give the baby to ?

Good luck
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#44 Posted : Tuesday, September 28, 2010 12:58:25 PM(UTC)
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I had an a abortion at 25 I was 5 weeks pregnant when I found out and I had an abortion at 6 weeks - and it was the best thing for me ever. My life would have been much more different if I did not do it. Now 8 years later I am ready to go ahead get married and have children.

Have youre termination - BUT be sure that is WHAT YOU WANT OR you will hate yourself and regret it for the rest of your life. For me it was the rght thing for others it is not....Brick wall

Good luck!
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#45 Posted : Tuesday, September 28, 2010 4:21:35 PM(UTC)
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Hi, There is the right way, it took 2 to tango, accept your responsibilities, if you so badly didn't want the baby, why did you not think further e.g condom etc. So girl, you go and do the right thing, it is not your way and your body, it is a gift of God//Jesus to you and accept your responsibilities and guess what you will never regret making the right choise
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#46 Posted : Wednesday, September 29, 2010 5:46:36 PM(UTC)
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We are a warm, loving, happily married couple from the Free State, we are looking to make our dream of starting a family come true by adopting a (white) baby (or child up to 4years) who we can share our lives and our love with.

I’m 29 have my own business, my husband is 38 and he is a farmer, we have been together for 5years now and married for one year.

We tried working through an adoption agency but they say we have to be married for at least 3 to 5 years before we can apply, but according to them, by the time we are married 3 years my husband will be too old to qualify, even if my age still qualifies :-(

So we have to do this on our own :-(

I am not able to conceive because of endometriosis and there are so many couples out there that are in the same boat as we are, So if you decide to give your baby up for adoption know that there are so many couples out there who’s hearts yearn to have a little one to love…..

I know someday somewhere there will be a baby or a little child out there that will need a good, safe and loving home, we will be able to give him/her everything his/her little heart desires, but most of all we will give him/her all the love in the world and the attention he/she deserves, when that day comes we will be here waiting :-)

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Bella
sweetbella@webmail.co.za
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#47 Posted : Wednesday, September 29, 2010 6:59:09 PM(UTC)
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Pray Pray I sat and thought things well..........I am going to keep my baby..........not planned at all but I trust that God will provide. This decision is going to be a big secrifice of the rest of my family.......... this baby is also our family so will all be fine.

To those who wished well constructively and lovingly advised........thank you ever so much.

Now me is dealing with first trimester issues.
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#37 Posted : Wednesday, September 29, 2010 7:55:01 PM(UTC)
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Bunch of brainless nitwits. How the hell do you get yourself into these positions.
First off use birth controll. You are supposed to plan for a baby it does not just happen....... Please what an excuse.
Never in my life - how selfish I don't want a baby, I might consider adoption, I might have an abortion etc. etc. etc. Have you noticed all the I's in the sentence?

Grow up accept responsibility and after the baby, abortion, adoption consider sowing it shut!


Glad to see you think that we are all brainless
For your information birth control doesn't always work 100% or the morning after pill for that matter.......
Good luck for planning a baby because it isn't always that simple do you even know how pregnancies happen?
Even more selfish to bring a child into the world that is not loved and constantly looked at as a regret........
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#48 Posted : Thursday, October 07, 2010 10:52:05 AM(UTC)
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People can be so judgemental, it's actually sickening.

You are the most important person in your life, and should make decisions that please you.

I had an abortion two years ago, and I do not regret it. My boyfriend of 5 years was very supportive throughout the whole process, and I know one day we will be ready to start our own family. I told very few people, because I know just how judgemental people can be. Sometimes the regret is excarcebated by external things. This is a very personal thing, and deal with it as such.

Good luck, you will be in my prayers.
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#49 Posted : Thursday, October 07, 2010 2:20:53 PM(UTC)
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You murdered a child that God gave you, and you think your prayers to your God are going to HELP?

You're a MURDERER!
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