If you are paying for the phone (directly or indirectly), take it until she agrees to change
her ways.Remember, she is living with you. You are not living with her.
Contrary to what many people think, children (and teens are still children) need to be
kept on the rail and need to have boundaries (it is their security although they will never
acknowledge it). But if the phone and the sleeping thing are the only problems, you are
a blessed parent. Good luck.