Hi, i am a Divorced mother , my daughter is 5 years old and going to pre-primary.
My ex and I have a legal arrangement that she should be picked up by him Friday afternoons from school every alternative weekend, and be brought back to me on Sunday evenings.
however, He never seems to have the time to pick het up, or bring her back as per arrangements in the divorce settlement.
He sends his girlfriend to pick her up on Fridays, without my consent , phones Sunday evenings to say he will drop her off at school Monday morning, en then drops her off hours after school starts, also without letting me know.
Even after I requesting him to be on time he still proceeds as he wishes. And I will receive threats that he will start a legal battle as he disagrees with the way I raise her.
Even after requesting him to not contact my partner, whenever I do not answer my phone immediate (charging in the bedroom, while i am in the kitchen) , he will still phone my partner and refuse to give me his partners telephone number, although she picks up my child from school without my consent or knowledge when he is unable to .
He just decides that I am ok with whatever he decides, thus my child is taken from school by someone that I don’t personally know, and without my knowledge of the changed arrangement, and also, no way for me to confirm that my child is ok when she is with his girlfriend.
What can i do, to ensure that arrangements are made and kept by with my knowledge and consent ?