Hi Sim...Unfortunately it won't help if your boyfriend adds you to his as you are already pregnant and the medical aid will exclude your pregnancy for 12 months after joining. YOu can try hospital insurance,I guess that will help a little with the hospital costs.Although I know some of them also excludes a pre existing pregnancy. This is really sad I know! I'm currently 6months pregnant and have been fighting for 5 months to get something to happen,but I wasted my time.
I'm paying everything cash,I found the cheapest gynae I could and the cheapest private hospital (I don't want to do the govermental thing,just look at this current strike) It's really alot of money but I don't have too much of a choice.The hospital stay and the birth will cost me about R 25 000. I did join a medical aid,but my pregnancy is not covered...atleast my baby will be covered from day 1!
Good luck,I wish you all the best and a healthy pregnancy
Nix